Overview
The Bible addresses betrothal across 15 verses, drawn from the Old Testament. These passages cluster most in Genesis and Hosea. Closely related themes include Jacob, Laban, Rachel and Wages. Figures whose stories touch this theme include Laban, Rachel, Jacob and Leah.
Key Bible verses about betrothal
Old Testament
Genesis
And Jacob loved Rachel; and said, I will serve thee seven years for Rachel thy younger daughter.
And Laban said, It is better that I give her to thee, than that I should give her to another man: abide with me.
And Jacob served seven years for Rachel; and they seemed unto him but a few days, for the love he had to her.
And Jacob said unto Laban, Give me my wife, for my days are fulfilled, that I may go in unto her.
And Laban gathered together all the men of the place, and made a feast.
And it came to pass in the evening, that he took Leah his daughter, and brought her to him; and he went in unto her.
And Laban gave unto his daughter Leah Zilpah his maid for an handmaid.
And it came to pass, that in the morning, behold, it was Leah: and he said to Laban, What is this thou hast done unto me? did not I serve with thee for Rachel? wherefore then hast thou beguiled me?
And Laban said, It must not be so done in our country, to give the younger before the firstborn. country: Heb. place
Fulfil her week, and we will give thee this also for the service which thou shalt serve with me yet seven other years.
And Jacob did so, and fulfilled her week: and he gave him Rachel his daughter to wife also.
And Laban gave to Rachel his daughter Bilhah his handmaid to be her maid.
And he went in also unto Rachel, and he loved also Rachel more than Leah, and served with him yet seven other years.
People in the Bible and betrothal
Biblical figures whose stories intersect with this theme.
In the Bible dictionary
Studying betrothal for yourself
- Begin with Genesis 29:18, then read the passages below in canonical order.
- Compare how Genesis and Hosea each treat the theme.
- Consider the lives of Laban, Rachel and Jacob and how their stories intersect with it.
- Widen the study to related themes: Jacob, Laban, Rachel and Wages.
Frequently asked questions
What does the Bible say about betrothal?
The Bible addresses betrothal across 15 verses, drawn from the Old Testament. These passages cluster most in Genesis and Hosea. Closely related themes include Jacob, Laban, Rachel and Wages. Figures whose stories touch this theme include Laban, Rachel, Jacob and Leah.
How many Bible verses are about betrothal?
The Bible references betrothal in 15 verses (King James Version).
Where does the Bible first mention betrothal?
In canonical order, the first of these passages is Genesis 29:18: “And Jacob loved Rachel; and said, I will serve thee seven years for Rachel thy younger daughter.”
Which people in the Bible are associated with betrothal?
Laban, Rachel, Jacob, Leah and Zilpah.
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