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What the Bible Says About Friendship

Overview

The Bible addresses friendship across 31 verses, drawn from the Old Testament. These passages cluster most in Job, Proverbs and Psalms. Closely related themes include Marriage, Punishments, Fellowship and Union.

Key Bible verses about friendship

Old Testament

Job

Job 6:14

To him that is afflicted pity should be shewed from his friend; but he forsaketh the fear of the Almighty. is afflicted: Heb. melteth

Job 6:15

My brethren have dealt deceitfully as a brook, and as the stream of brooks they pass away;

Job 19:13

He hath put my brethren far from me, and mine acquaintance are verily estranged from me.

Job 19:14

My kinsfolk have failed, and my familiar friends have forgotten me.

Job 19:15

They that dwell in mine house, and my maids, count me for a stranger: I am an alien in their sight.

Job 19:16

I called my servant, and he gave me no answer; I intreated him with my mouth.

Job 19:17

My breath is strange to my wife, though I intreated for the children's sake of mine own body. mine: Heb. my belly

Job 19:18

Yea, young children despised me; I arose, and they spake against me. young: or, the wicked

Job 19:19

All my inward friends abhorred me: and they whom I loved are turned against me. my: Heb. the men of my secret

Job 19:20

My bone cleaveth to my skin and to my flesh, and I am escaped with the skin of my teeth. and to: or, as to

Job 19:21

Have pity upon me, have pity upon me, O ye my friends; for the hand of God hath touched me.

Job 19:22

Why do ye persecute me as God, and are not satisfied with my flesh?

Psalms

Psalms 35:13

But as for me, when they were sick, my clothing was sackcloth: I humbled my soul with fasting; and my prayer returned into mine own bosom. humbled: or, afflicted

Psalms 35:14

I behaved myself as though he had been my friend or brother: I bowed down heavily, as one that mourneth for his mother. behaved myself: Heb. walked as though: Heb. as a friend, as a brother to me

Psalms 55:12

For it was not an enemy that reproached me; then I could have borne it: neither was it he that hated me that did magnify himself against me; then I would have hid myself from him:

Psalms 55:13

But it was thou, a man mine equal, my guide, and mine acquaintance. mine equal: Heb. according to my rank

Psalms 55:14

We took sweet counsel together, and walked unto the house of God in company. We: Heb. Who sweetened counsel

In the Bible dictionary

Studying friendship for yourself

  • Begin with Deuteronomy 13:6, then read the passages below in canonical order.
  • Compare how Job, Proverbs and Psalms each treat the theme.
  • Widen the study to related themes: Marriage, Punishments, Fellowship and Union.

Frequently asked questions

What does the Bible say about friendship?

The Bible addresses friendship across 31 verses, drawn from the Old Testament. These passages cluster most in Job, Proverbs and Psalms. Closely related themes include Marriage, Punishments, Fellowship and Union.

How many Bible verses are about friendship?

The Bible references friendship in 31 verses (King James Version).

Where does the Bible first mention friendship?

In canonical order, the first of these passages is Deuteronomy 13:6: “If thy brother, the son of thy mother, or thy son, or thy daughter, or the wife of thy bosom, or thy friend, which is as thine own soul, entice thee secretly, saying, Let us go and serve other gods, which thou hast not known, thou, nor thy fathers;”

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